Spiritual counseling does not work unless you are rigorously honest, slightly willing and open to having everything you hold dear undone. Holy Spirit provides us with portals for this undoing to be accomplished. One portal can be you and I. I act only as a channel to receive guidance from the “heart” until you can accept the power of Holy Spirit within yourself.
This process is much like psychotherapy but uses the power of the “heart” to energetically exchange spiritual currents to make unconscious emotions and suppressed desires less frightening to express and more welcoming to feel, directly.